March 7, 1936 – September 16, 2025
Florence “Topper” Tripodi, 89
Florence Beverley “Topper” Steudler Tripodi, 89, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 16, 2025, at Millard Fillmore Suburban Hospital in Buffalo, New York, surrounded by her loving family.
Born March 7, 1936, in Rolfe, Pennsylvania, to the late Florence (née Smith) and George Edward Steudler, Topper was their fifth child. On November 28, 1953, she married Stephen Anthony Tripodi, and together they built a life and raised their children.
Topper was a beloved wife, a nurturing mother and grandmother, and a cherished friend, known and loved for her quiet strength and warm heart. Her family could always depend on her steady wisdom and gentle guidance. A determined and curious learner, she exemplified resilience. While raising her children, Topper proudly completed her high school education and went on to become a Licensed Practical Nurse, a choice that suited her compassionate nature. Beyond her family devotions, Topper cultivated a rich life of personal interests. She possessed a creative soul and a competitive spirit, which she channeled into her many passions. She was an accomplished golfer, a strategic bridge player, and she enjoyed experimenting with multiple art mediums, including the piano. Her meticulous research into the family’s genealogy was a final, lasting gift, connecting her family’s past with its future.
She leaves behind a legacy of love, perseverance, and lifelong learning.
Florence is survived by seven children, Marie Grandinetti of Pennsylvania, Beth (Thomas) DaPolito of Colorado, Susanne Tripodi of New Mexico, Stephen (Georgine) Tripodi of New York, Francis Tripodi of New York, Colette Forrest (Gary Berger) of New York, Lisa (Howard) Allen of New York; 23 grandchildren, 40 great-grandchildren; a brother, Paul (Joan) Steudler of Pennsylvania and many nieces and nephews.
Florence was preceded in death by her husband Stephen, 2023; daughter, Beverley Jean, 1964; her sisters Kathleen (Frank) Costanzo and Violet (Charles) Clerkin, and her brothers Gene (Loretta), George (Lois) Gerald, and Donald Steudler, and son-in-law Dennis Grandinetti
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, September 20, 2025, at 10:00 am at the Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels in Olean. Burial will be in the Holy Rosary Cemetery in Johnsonburg, PA, at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Arrangements are under the direction of Guenther Funeral Home, Inc., 1303 E. State St., Olean. Online condolences may be expressed at www.guentherfh.com
